Being sexy begins between the ears.
You can wear the prettiest outfit, a form-fitting shirt, the right color, and still feel uncomfortable in your shoes. It’s all about confidence. Besides, sexy in general is so subjective. Personal preferences, cultural influences and stereotypes all play a role, proving that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Try finding a picture of someone you would like to use as your inspiration. We all play a role daily. Use this image as your character, as your muse, to focus in your mind’s eye and put on your sexy. Clothing is an expression of how good you feel. Avoid letting negative talk like, “I’m too fat, too old, too conservative, etc.” get in your way. They are mere insignificant roadblocks to success.
Take a minute to evaluate what defines sexy and beauty to you. You may discover more things you appreciate about yourself than you realize.